Sunday, October 28, 2007

A very special day for my very special girls!!



A day late in august was a very special day for two of my nieces in Egypt... I took them to the swimming pool! Neither of them had ever been to the pool before. There are lots of them in Luxor but they belong to the hotels, so it is not so easy for local kids to use them. But this day was ours...! I had brought swimsuits from Norway, and it was so lovely to watch them having fun and getting used to the water.

It should be a right for all children to learn how to swim.

Thursday, October 25, 2007

Say NO to corporal punishment!!

In Norway, corporal punishment has been illegal since 1987. I hope this will spread.

Children are small humans. Why are they to be treated with less respect?

It is our duty to teach our children the difference between right and wrong. We should not show them that violence is tolerable.

Children can be taught through communication and understanding - please never try to control your children through fear.

Thank you .

Tuesday, October 9, 2007

"Mummy - I saw an angel!!"



A couple of years ago I was very active on a Norwegian internet forum discussing paranormal phenomenon. During this time there were a lot of young parents posting there sharing their stories, telling about what their children saw and said.

A lot of them talked about imaginary friends. Some had a name, others were just referred to as "The lady" or "the nice man", the common answer parents got when they asked who, was "My friend.."

If your child told you something like that, what would you say to him or her? What if we really have spiritual guides or guardian angels? I believe we do! What if children are open and innocent enough to see them and talk to them? Indeed there are angels standing around every cradle.

As kids grow up they seem to forget their mysterious friends. Maybe it is us who deprives them from this ability. I have a girlfriend my own age who vividly remembers seeing her secret friend as a child, but for logical reasons she thinks it is her imagination running wild and that she made him up.

I think if she did, she would have remembered making him up as well!!

I hope when our children tell us about their companions, we can be curious and encouraging. So many people spend a lifetime tryingto contact their spiritual guides. Maybe they don't have to loose that ability from the beginning.

Sunday, October 7, 2007

The Queen of the Two Lands!!


Say hello to a beautiful little girl, Minna! She's five years old and born in Luxor, that once was Thebes, capital of ancient Egypt.

Don't let those innocent eyes fool you... Even though she looks like a flower, she acts like a monkey sometimes, she's so curious about everything... high and low is the wonderful Minna - making her "aunt" very nervous!!

We are not sure about the details and formalities yet, but either way Minna and I will be very important parts of each others lives... And I hope in the future she can visit Norway with me, so she truly can be; "The Queen of the Two Lands"..

Friday, October 5, 2007

To be chosen for parenthood...



We often talk about how we choose to have children. Choose to get pregnant, choose to give birth. But what if it's the other way around, that childrens souls choose to come to us? That every mother, every parent, is chosen by a soulwho wants to incarnate into this world.

When you got pregnant, maybe the child came to you in your dreams, with love and a request: Will you carry me into this world, and will you take care of me? Will you make me able to live on the earth?

And maybe you accepted. Maybe you felt honoured. Because no honour is greater, and no responsibility bigger... And no gift more precious, than parenthood.